The next morning

So last nights date… how was I feeling about it today..? How did the evening end I hear you ask…

This morning I sit here in my lounge contemplating wether last night was as good as it seemed.. we had a good night albeit a little put out of by his pushiness at times and I can feel it becoming an issue about us both still being active on the internet dating site..not by me I’d like to add. I am actually quite chilled about this as after all, we are not in a relationship it’s only been 2 dates.

In comes a text ” hey you, had a great time last night, shall we do something this afternoon?” 

For anyone that knows me well knows that this is way too much for me, I like my space and I don’t want to go out with him again today but I am sensing if I say no he’s going to get shitty. On the other hand, I am not going to go just to please him. Also I don’t lie either so I am going straight in with my reply! 

” hi, thanks for a fun night but I think I am going to stay home and get a few things done, have a good day, S x”

What do you think he replied..??

Can I come back to your place…?

Date guy continued… as you may recall after our meal and drinks he asked to come back to my place…. did I say yes..?

I DID!!! Now not sure I would have been so relaxed about this had I not consumed a fair amount of red wine, but I liked him, he seemed nice and I felt safe so I though why not.

So here we were at my house… do I make coffee..? Do I pour wine…? What do I do I couldn’t get my brain into functioning as all that was going around in my thoughts was OMG DO I DONT I.. 

I’d not been in this situation for so long I felt like a teenager all over again, nerves, excitement and fear of making a bad judgement call.. 

I decided to not stress and see what happens… 

Today’s online guy

Who really wants a message from a guy with the profile picture of him with a snake round his neck…?

WHO..???? Not me that’s for sure 🐍🐍🐍

I can’t begin to tell you what people put as a profile picture! In fact I don’t know what’s normal anymore!!

Back to the guy couple

So I am still plodding on with my usual day to day business working and the usual home commitments and then after 830 pm is usually when I check in with my friends family and my online life that is currently going on.

As you may recall I had been invited to a cosy secluded cottage by two older guys saying they wanted to “treat me”. I had replied with a very polite no.

Anyway I thought that was it but here’s how the next conversation played out: 

Dear red24, thank you for replying as we rarely get replies so surely you must be a little bit curious, even though you said no. With that said I’d like to tempt you further I’d like to propose the following : 

I can arrange a car to collect you saving you the trouble of driving and you could have some champagne on route?

When you arrive we will have a candle lit bath waiting for you with some more champagne and nibbles 

We will lay out some new bath towels and a robe in your own bedroom like we said

There you can get dressed in whatever you prefer, a dress would be lovely though 😉 whilst we prepare a lovely cooked meal for you in our homely kitchen 

How does that sound? We look forward to hearing from you soon. 

Me… WOW!!! 

Dishy Dave!

Dishy Dave is sending pics now…

I woke up yesterday morning to a multi media message from him and OMG, put it this way, I didn’t even need to reach for my glasses…. there he was totally naked, his manhood stood to attention with him grabbing it in one hand and without sounding crude – it was HUGE! 

Now these days this might not come as a surprise as it seems men love to send so called dick pics and still to this day I really don’t get why! When will they learn that most women, or at least ones I know would probably rather see a picture of a dress, or shoes or I right ladies?

Anyway, after seeing this picture I didn’t know what to say, was good morning enough? He is obviously going to want me to say something about his manhood and so I had to think this through carefully! If I say oh yeah that’s a hot picture or wow give me more or something along those lines I am going to get a inundated with more and then he’s going to want ones of me 😱. 

Maybe I should ignore it? 

Ok so not wanting to encourage this too much I give a simple “WOW”, good morning. 

In the meantime I have replied to the retired architect and his boyfriend on the weekend cottage saga. “Hi and thanks for your message but if I am honest I am not really into spending the weekend with 2 total strangers but I wish you luck on here”.

Date Guy

Here it is my second date with Mr Big Photographer. I’ve been taunted all week from my work colleagues about having to sit for a risky photo shoot and to watch out for a large lens making an appearance!

So we are going for dinner tonight…. He has offered to pick me up but I am not really digging him knowing where I live really! I am getting the bus to town so I can enjoy a glass of Vino. I figure I should make more of an effort on the clothing front as its dinner so I have a skirt on and heels.

I jump on the bus and text my friends to let them know where I am if I need a getaway, this doesn’t mean I am being negative but you never know right…?

So here we are in the Thai place that I LOVE! Its a quaint little place and the lighting is soft which is always a bonus. Again he looks nice and the chat was going really well until a little bit of digging from him started to surface. Firstly hes upset I haven’t told him what office I work in and now hes a little bit narky about not letting him pick me up…! I tried to blow it off and ordered another wine!

We continue to have dinner and chat about his home in Wales etc, he lives here during the week and goes back to Wales on the weekends and then he invites me to go the next time I am free, a nice gesture I felt but maybe a bit soon…. my own personal thoughts is that I think a whole weekend is quite a lot of time after a couple of dates, then there is the whole bedroom/nakedness issue.

Its now getting late and he suggests going for a drink, I was already feeling a bit tipsy but thought what the hell. We go to a pub nearby and on the walk he swoops in for a kiss…!!! I was a bit surprised but also where he caught me unawares my glasses smacked him by the eye! Ooops I thought. So here we were kissing in the street – I felt like a teenager!

On to the pub an another drink and then he says “let me come back to yours tonight”